On Control and Moving On

Decks used for these readings are The Dog Tarot by Heidi Schulman, The Lenormand by Marie Anne Lenormand, and the Spirit Animan Oracle by Colette Baron-Reid

Sometimes, life throws a wrench in our system that changes everything. This can scare us quite a bit so how can we see ourselves through. Let’s find out.

The Cards

The Situation

cards pulled from the Dog Tarot, the Spirit Animal Oracle and The Lenormand Oracle

1. Lily: sex, innuendo, power, control, dominant, influence, sweet, sensual, sexy

2. Moon: night, dream, fantasy, fantasize, dream, fear, timid, glow, scary, spooky

3. Tower: building, architecture, structure, build, fortify, strengthen, tall, strong, fortify

The Advice

1. One of Bones: Lighten up on your view of your situation. You’re holding onto a person or thing because you fear losing it. Perhaps moving on is best if you want to create stability for yourself

2. The Chariot: don’t be afraid to gas up and savor those great moments on your journey. Friends don’t let friends drive with their windows up.

3. 3 of bones: you are balanced enough to negotiate any change in your emotional or physical circumstances. The bonds you have with others and the shared experiences you have with them will see you through.

The Guides

1. Lion: be generous of spirit

2. Nightengale: love is all around

3. Parrot: watch your words

The situation for this reading suggests that some level of your control has been lost. This is affecting you because it’s suggesting that you might not have what you need to build strong structures for your life and the people in it. This is making you scared and you’re not seeing this is a fallacy and a fantasy you have created in your mind.

The advice here is to lighten up on the reins a bit. Perhaps you’re holding onto something that isn’t there because you know you need to move on and you fear losing your comfort zone. Ultimately, this is to your detriment because it’s not going to help you develop. Reaching out to others for help will serve you well here, on top of the fact that you are supported and loved; your guides and angels are with you even if other people don’t want to come along with you on your journey. You are already balanced enough to know what to do and how to navigate the changes you’re experiencing.

As a closing message for you, your guides are telling you that being generous with yourself will help you, but this might not be as easy as you’d like it to be. Knowing that support and love are surrounding you is going to be the key to making the coming changes feel less insurmountable. If you do reach out, pay attention to who you’re reaching out to and watch your words when doing so. Sometimes (if your me especially) we might tend to lose our tempers. This is a bad move because it might not say the best things about us. It’s okay to feel some feels but always keep in mind that your words (and mine too) have power.